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How to make sure your children are safe when using social media

By Lea Remini 25 June, 2023 3 mins read

Participation of parents on social media

Parents worry about the potential consequences of excessive social networking. Excessive social media use can cause parental distraction, lower participation in everyday activities, or put children at danger. Research shows that a child's secure attachment is strongly affected by parents' involvement on social media. Children need frequent eye contact, one-on-one time, and undivided attention to form a healthy relationship with their parents.

Parents who engage more on social media tends to be more open-minded. They often engage with social media at younger ages than other parents, and often post pictures of their children on more public networks. However, sharing photos online can cause privacy concerns, especially if the children are still in their teens. Parents might not always be aware of the unique dangers associated with sharing photos from their children on social networks.

Parental control apps

Parental control apps for Facebook allow parents to monitor their children’s use of the site and block them from accessing content they are not allowed to. These programs can be set to place time limits on certain websites and apps. They are installed on the phone of the parent and the child, and both can be monitored remotely.

Although these apps have many advantages, there are also some disadvantages. They can be useful for parents to keep an eye on their children online, but it is also important to discuss with them how these apps might affect their privacy. You should review the boundaries with your child as they become more comfortable using these apps.

Parental sharing on Facebook

You can limit access to certain areas of social networking sites to help keep your children safe. One of the first things to do is disable location tagging. This feature should never be turned on for children younger than 18. Their birthdays should not be made public. Other parental controls include limiting how many posts they make to friends, and making sure that their birthdays are not made public.

You can block people as a way to limit the interactions between your child and strangers. When it comes to posting information, don't include any information that could lead to cyberbullying. Lastly, your child should avoid sharing photos and videos that might be offensive to others.

The impact of social media upon adolescents' understanding of branded posts

Recent studies on adolescents' understanding of branded posts have shown a range of results. While most studies on adolescents' perceptions and understanding of advertisements were conducted by researchers, some of these studies showed that adolescents are not as critical about advertising messages. One study found that adolescents only have an incomplete understanding of integrated advertising strategies. Another study suggested that adolescents might have different understandings of branded posts depending on their gender and age.

Although these results are mixed, some studies have shown that social media use can benefit adolescents' well-being. Researchers have discovered that social media passive use can impact affective well-being. However the effects may differ depending on which adolescents are involved. For one week, researchers evaluated six adolescents and assessed their vulnerability to the effects of social media on their moods. The positive correlation between social media use and adolescents' depressive symptoms and life satisfaction was small. These findings may be due in part to adolescents' vulnerability to social media.

FAQ

Which parenting style is most encouraged in modern America?

The traditional family isn't as popular today than it was 50 year ago, because of changes in families. It is becoming less common for parents to be involved in the raising of children. They prefer to be with their children and spend more time alone. Helicopter parenting is a term that describes this type of parenting. This is where parents hover over their children 24 hours a day. They are there to supervise them at all costs. They make sure that they eat well, exercise, and get enough sleep. This kind parenting creates stress for both the parents and the children. Parents feel guilty for not being there all the time, and kids feel they are missing out on their childhood experiences.

This type of parenting is not good for kids because it doesn't teach them how to take care themselves. This type of parenting teaches children to rely on their parents for everything. Instead of teaching independence parents are teaching dependence. They show their children that success is dependent on adult help. If they fail, then they blame themselves.

This leads to kids who grow up feeling inadequate and worthless. Because they did not live up to their own expectations, they feel like failures. Because they didn't learn how to cope with failure, they lack self-confidence.

Another reason why this type of parenting isn't so popular anymore is that there are fewer two-parent households. Parents who work from home can find it difficult to be available for their children if both of them are working. Many parents end up raising their children by themselves.

Nowadays, parents want their kids to be happy and healthy. They don’t want to worry about whether their kids get enough sleep, eat well, and exercise. They want to be able to concentrate on their lives. They have hired tutors, nannies or other caregivers so they can focus on their own lives.

They don’t want to manage every aspect their child’s life. They don't want to teach their children that mistakes are inevitable. They want them to learn from their mistakes and try again.

Is it better for a child to have strict parents?

I think you should try to be a strict parent. It's essential that children learn how behave. However, discipline is necessary if children are not being consistent.

It's important that they learn proper behaviour. It is not a good idea to allow them to run wild, as they could endanger someone or do wrong.

You will discover that it is harder to be a strict parent than a permissive parent. If you allow your children too much freedom, they will rebel against you.

If you give them too much freedom they won't be able to control their behavior.

Being a strict parent is hard work, but it's worth it.

What should first-time mothers learn?

First-time mothers need to realize how much they still have to learn. They also need to realize that they are not alone in this journey.

There are many women who have been there before. And they've learned from those experiences.

They'll find support and encouragement from these women.

They'll be less isolated as they become mothers.

How to Avoid Sibling Rivalry

Avoid sibling rivalry by not ignoring them. Instead, you should try to find ways to make them feel loved and appreciated. So they don't feel jealous and can have fun having fun together.

Here are some ideas.

Play with them. You could play hide and seek, tag, or any game where they have to cooperate.
Special treats are a great way to show your appreciation. You could give them an extra slice of cake, or an ice cream cone.
Make them laugh. Sing songs, tell jokes, or dance.
Spend quality time together. Go on walks together, read books or play board games.
Talk to them about the things that are most important to them. Ask them about their hobbies and interests.
Be patient. Do not get discouraged if they have to fight. Remain calm and maintain your cool.
When they do something for one another, praise them. Let them know you are grateful for their friendship.

What is a healthy life style for parents?

Healthy living for parents means eating healthy meals, exercising, getting enough sleep, spending time with loved ones, and having a balanced diet. It includes abstaining from drugs and alcohol.

Is gentle parenting good?

It depends on your definition of "good." If you're referring to the treatment of children, then I would answer yes. However, if asked whether they are happy with the treatment, I would have to say no. They require discipline and firmness from time to time. Otherwise, they'll never learn how to behave properly.

Children need rules and limits. Children will never be able to recognize what is acceptable and what is not. They won't be able respect others and follow the instructions.

If you ask me which parenting style is better, I'd say none. Each one is equally effective. The important thing is to choose the one that best suits you and your family.

Is it really so difficult to raise a teenager?

It isn't easy but it is possible. You need to give them space to grow and learn on their own. They are unique people with opinions and ideas. They are becoming adults. Please be patient and understanding.

They will make mistakes, and sometimes they will behave badly. However, this is part and parcel of life. It's not always easy to predict what your children will do next.

Listen to what they have to say and be open-minded. Don't judge their opinions. You can see the world from their perspective.

Remember to love them unconditionally. You will see them grow into better people.

Statistics

Most adults will become parents at some point in their lives (i.e., around 89.6% of the adult population worldwide; Ranjan, 2015). (positivepsychology.com)
Students from authoritative families were likelier to say that their parents–not their peers–would influence their decisions (Bednar and Fisher 2003). (parentingscience.com)

What is Positive Parenting? 33 Examples and Benefits

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How To

How do I discipline my child?

There are many ways to discipline children. But remember, the goal is for them to learn why they did something wrong so they don’t repeat it.

Here are some ideas:

Explain to your child why it is that you think they did something incorrect.
Give them a time limit. Example: "I'm going for you to clean your room in 5 minutes." You'll need to stay after school if you don't finish your room clean by the timer goes off.
Praise good behavior.
Be kind to others.
If your child is not following the rules, make sure they know what the consequences will be.
Rewards are better than punishment. Rewards include praise, stickers, toys, etc.
Your child should be taught the rules of the game.
Be consistent.
Avoid yelling or shouting.
Accept and follow through on all punishments
Talk calmly with your child and be firm.
Take control of your emotions
Do not shout or scream.
Show your love.
Do not hit your child.
Make time to express yourself.
Keep in mind that children are just small once.
Never stop following through with your promises
Listen to the feelings of your child.
Understand that children are not stupid.
Have patience.
Do not let your child see that you are angry.
Be calm
Encourage your child to share his/her feelings.